Do you want to keep your man’s eyes on you and only you? Would you love to make him absolutely addicted to you? If so, you’re in the right place.
As you may or may not already know, there are certain things women can do to hook men. The good news is that these have nothing to do with looks, but rather attitude.
Once you can get yourself in the right mindset, you’ll not only have his attention, but like a lovesick puppy dog, he won’t leave your side.
Here’s what you need to do.
1. Be mysterious.
Have you ever left a date feeling mentally drained, or like you knew everything there was to know about a man? If so, you probably had little interest in seeing him again.
The same rings true for men.
If you’re the kind of woman who takes over a conversation or shares everything from your childhood memories to your deepest secrets then he’s isn’t going to be compelled to call you.
Instead of spilling your heart out to him it’s important that you hold back some information, and keep him coming around for more.
Also note that this isn’t only for in-person conversations, but it applies to text messages, phone calls, online messaging, the works.
2. Be positive.
More than just smiles, emotions in general are contagious. This means that if you’re the pessimistic or self-pitying type, those feelings are going to affect your date, too.
Even more importantly, men are attracted to happy, outgoing women. Just like you wouldn’t want to date someone who was always down, nor do men. That’s why it’s so important to be positive and try to find the good in everyday situations.
Once your man realizes that you’re the one to keep him smiling he’ll become hopelessly devoted to you.
3. Be hard to get.
Now this one has been disputed over the years, but believe me, it works.
Since men are hunters at heart, making him work for your love and attention will keep him chasing you. When this happens, he’ll become addicted to you.
To do so, it’s important that you’re not “too available.” This means that you don’t drop what you’re doing to see him, and you set certain standards for yourself when it comes to making plans with him.
For instance, if he calls and asks if you want to go for dinner that night, tell him that you’re busy and suggest rescheduling for a day or two later. Even if you have no plans for that night, keeping him on his toes to see you will get him hooked.
It’s also important that you’re not always the one to initiate contact with him. If you’re doing all the texting, messaging, phoning, etc., it’ll take away from his pursuit for you. Instead let him be the one to woo you.
4. Be decisive.
As much as guys like to be in control, they don’t want to have to call the shots for you, too. Instead of counting on him to decide on your dinner plans or weigh in on your outfit options, do it yourself!
Men find indecisiveness draining, so if you want to keep him coming back for more it’s crucial that you learn how to be independent and have options of your own.
5. Keep living your own life.
It’s tough not to get swept up in romance, but if you want to make you guy commit to you it’s important that you have a life without him.
Sure, it may be great spending all of your free time with him, but if you push your life to the side for him he’ll see how easily he has you.
On the other hand, if you make him work for your time by keeping busy with friends, family and other hobbies he’ll not only want to see you more, but he’ll even miss you when you’re not around.
6. Be willing to try new things.
Whether it’s a foreign cuisine or a kinky sex position, being open and willing to try new things with your man is important, especially when it comes to getting him to commit.
Since most men are adventurous at heart, keeping your relationship exciting and new will prevent him from feeling bored or looking elsewhere for love.
7. Be his rock.
When a man knows he can rely on you he’ll feel a connection to you like no other. Thus, if you want him to commit to a relationship, you need to be the one he can count on.
To show him this it’s important that you’re a woman of your word. Meaning, if you say you’re going to do something, do it. When he knows he can depend on you to follow through he’ll feel secure with you.
It’s also important that you have an open ear, and be the person he can talk to about anything and everything. When he does share his hopes and dreams with you encourage him to chase them. Never tell him that something is out of his reach, but rather be his biggest fan.
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